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Robert Shepherd's avatar

There are people who’ve gone further than this and said this is the root of why stories exist in the first place— that as a species we think in stories because it means we can see ourselves as the good guys and the people whose food we are stealing as the bad guys. And I think those people are correct, so I am depressed.

I think that in the end, we are capable of real nobility and good, as long as we believe someone is one of the good guys. The idea that humans are purely good or purely bad is a misunderstanding: we are good to those we believe deserve it, and bad to those who we believe do not. Most atrocities are in the end stories of love, because in the end people commit them in the belief we are protecting the things we love.

I think the most grim thing I believe about humanity is that “love always wins” is a warning. I don’t think we want love to win, when it brings its vengeance upon us. It would be nice to believe our enemies act from hate. More than nice, maybe; it would be necessary. But I expect in the end that all of us act out of love

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"Tupelo" Honey Steele's avatar

This was great. Virtue ethics is a way of developing a moral system that adapts. I suspect it is similar to your 'exoskeleton.' You don't have to work so hard at proving your virtue, if you simply ARE basically virtuous.

In the US and western society in general, the black experience is very constrictive, almost prison-like sometimes--the expectations, the constant erosion of status, even the fear. That's why this quotation from Solzhenitsyn seems especially pertinent to the black experience. It is the root of all ethics, IMO.

"It was granted me to carry away from my prison years on my bent back, which nearly broke beneath its load, this essential experience: how a human being becomes evil and how good. In the intoxication of youthful successes I had felt myself to be infallible, and I was therefore cruel. In the surfeit of power I was a murderer, and an oppressor. In my most evil moments I was convinced that I was doing good, and I was well supplied with systematic arguments. And it was only when I lay there on rotting prison straw that I sensed within myself the first stirrings of good. Gradually it was disclosed to me that the line separating good and evil passes not through states, nor between classes, nor between political parties either—but right through every human heart—and through all human hearts."

It is our job to do that battle on a daily basis, but it becomes so much easier when you learn you already are 'good.' That you've won that battle, essentially. You become more fluid, as ethics change with situations. You begin to trust yourself to know.

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